Husband Hunters?! WTF

Wanna know why I hate most women? Here's reason 223,248,987,354... or whatever.

From MSN (link here)
Beware the Husband HunterWhy Some Women Go For Guys Who Are TakenMay 28, 2010



By Elise Nersesian



A sparkly engagement ring used to be the symbol of ultimate security for single girls. However, a dangerous ilk of women is on the rise — those who don't consider a wedding band a deterrent, while searching for Mr. Right. They crave the excitement of a passionate romance, but one with an added challenge on top. In other words: They want your boyfriend or husband and aren't the least bit afraid to go after him.


Really? I hope you die a horribly painful death. Not one part of this is honorable. "But we're not men, why do we need to be honorable?" Have you no feelings? Soul? Morals? If not.. you should be committed. If you do and you still don't care... I hope you get your eyes clawed out by the wife/gf/fiance. Because if you EVER touch C... I will do more than that.

If the tabloids are any indication, one may assume that chasing married men is largely a habit formed in Hollywood — from Rachel Uchitel's recent confession to bedding actor David Boreanaz (a married father of two), to stripper Michelle “Bombshell” McGee's tryst with Sandra Bullock's soon-to-be ex Jesse James, to (insert name of stripper-Playmate-bottle girl)'s fling with shamed golfer Tiger Woods.



However, this recent batch of philandering female star-chasers is indicative of a real-life trend that's been taking place for a while, say scientists at Oklahoma State University.

Yeah, and they seem to think they're okay because "the guy was the married one. He should have known!" just shut up!!! You're ridiculous. You definitely are just as responsible for it as they are. If not more... being female and more clear-headed during arousal than male... you can turn your desire on and off with a flip of a switch.



In a prominent and highly publicized study, researchers divided bachelorettes into two groups and showed them photographs of a hot guy — telling one group he was single and the other he was in a relationship; then, they asked the women how likely they were to pursue him. Only when the woman believed he was committed to someone else did interest in the male subject skyrocket.

REALLY?!?!?! I understand he'd be hot.. but you'd be more than likely to pursue him because of that?!



So what gives? It's not like mate poaching is a new concept. The idea of seeking several partners — even those who are taken — well, that's classic Darwinian thinking. However, some experts say the more sexual equality females gain in society, the more Rachel Uchitel types are likely to come crawling out of the woodwork.

I understand and accept that marriage and commitment is not natural for people. But if you make that commitment, then you should definitely stay true. Make sure you're not in the situation for something bad to happen. But if someone's trying to stay true to their commitments, why would you try to ruin it? Ho-bag.




“Research shows that in societies where women are economically powerful, the more sexually and socially aggressive they are,” says anthropologist Helen Fisher, Ph.D., author of Why We Love. “And today, with more men out of work than women (due to the recession cutting more male-oriented jobs), we're seeing women become bolder in every area of their lives.”



There's even a chemical explanation for why many women pursue guys in relationships. “Any block to romantic love drives up dopamine — a brain chemical associated with love and reward,” says Fisher. “That brain rush can feel addictive.”

So.. we can excuse women for their chemical reaction to the "love" drug, but not excuse men for their chemical reaction to sexual desire. (i.e. All the whores are given a pass, but the stars that recently were caught cheating get hung out to dry.... sounds fair.... or not... idiots).



And, for the female mate poacher who Oklahoma researchers say bases her self-esteem on her looks and romantic status, that brain rush can be an intoxicating and driving force, causing her to view already-committed men with rose-colored glasses.



“Men in relationships have already proven their willingness to commit, which is a major draw to these women,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., sex and relationship therapist. “The possibility of landing him may make her feel special and maybe even superior.”

 Yeah.. wanna know what you really are!! You're not superior. You're just a booty call. You're not special, or interesting, or the love of their life. You're a ho-bag, less than dirt, not honorable at all and not to mention, you're an idiot. And you deserve every horrible thing that happens to you. I don't care if you had daddy problems, or your love life was bad when you were younger... go find your own guy. Just because we found someone to hold companionship with, you don't have to poach in our territory. We've already succeeded where you've failed.. wanna know why? Because you're an idiot and you're doing it wrong.


But this high doesn't last for long. Expending all their energy on already- committed men is a risky business, says Kerner. That's because these men are often happy to have sex on the side, but are rarely willing to leave their wives or girlfriends.

See? A man can have sex with just about anyone.. but to actually be in a committed relationship or living with someone... that's what they work through most. Sex is meaningless, or can be, but having someone at home to take care of you, that's special to them.




Proof can be gleaned from Michelle McGee's infamous quote in Steppin' Out magazine: “I think men are made to spread their seed. Women need to accept that. If you're going to be married to somebody, you need to know that men are not meant to be with one woman. I think you can totally love your spouse and still sleep with other women. That urge will always be there, if you're a man. I believe you can love your wife 100 percent and still stray.”

But in the end, both women get shafted. “The problem is, by expending all their energy on men in relationships, female mate poachers are overlooking potential guys who could be compatible long-term mates,” says Kerner.

See? (again) You're doing it wrong. idiots.

Yet, sometimes it does work out. Angelina Jolie — no doubt our generation's most famous mate-poacher — snatched Brad Pitt from Jennifer Aniston; five years and six kids later, they seem to be going strong. But in Angie's darkest hour, does she ever wonder whether one day she could become the next scorned wife?

Probably. She probably will end up being that.
If you can't tell, I'm a bitch in this post. I have no tolerance for idiotic women who think they can get away with anything/everything. Especially when they crucify guys that do that same thing. Equality does not mean "lets get them back!" If you want to be treated differently, then go back to the way it was. The guys that repressed women back then are not the same ones today... Just like with the slave days. I've never owned a slave... why am I being punished? GET OVER IT!!! I don't hate every dog because I was bit by one when I was younger... OR, I don't hate every horse because one got me beat when I was younger... etc.

I think I'm entitled to hurt any woman who does anything inappropriate with my C, touches, looks, words, etc... especially if I'm standing right there. Or they know he's in a relationship. I'll admit that it's part jealousy and part protectiveness. I'm soo protective of him (physically, emotionally, and comfortability level) because I know him and love him, the easier his life is, the better.