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Saturday, June 19, 2010

yay!

Hey everyone! Sammy has a blog too! Check it out :D

http://sammysayshola.blogspot.com/

yay! I love blogs :D

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Girl Assaults an Officer, Another Resists Arrest, They Deserve Everything They Got.

I love this. So the high school on Martin Luther King Jr Way (what I often call Milky Way... b/c it's easier than saying MLKJrWay) asked the Seattle cops to send patrols out after school because they were having a lot of problems with jaywalking. In Seattle, jaywalking is illegal. I can only assume that it's because it's extremely unsafe with the weather conditions Seattle is known for. It's hard to see cars when it's pouring down, so imagine trying to see a person (who doesn't have lights to notify other cars of their existence) in the dark gray haze. It's bound for disaster.

Anyway! These kids were crossing the street illegally. The cop pulled a guy to the side first, then saw the girls doing the same thing. He called them over too. They started freaking out, instead of calmly listening to the cop and accepting their punishment for their crime (which could have just been a lecture and no ticket). The cop could tell the situation was going to get out of hand quick. So he proceeded to arrest one of the girls (19 years old). At this point... like all fights with  high school students, they began to get a crowd. And like the trend seems to be now, everyone pulled out their phones and cameras to get it on video instead of helping, or just standing back. The girl continued to resist arrest.

While he was trying to detain this 19 year old hoodlum (yes, hoodlum. And no, I didn't say that because she's black. I say that because she's an idiot. She's talking back and resisting arrest. She made a minor offense like jaywalking turn in to an arrest. Oh, and if I needed more info to prove she's a hoodlum--which really isn't necessary--she also has a previous record of assaulting a police officer... so yes, a hoodlum) the girl's 17 year old buddy started assaulting the police officer. She pushed, slapped, got in his face, she all but spit on him and pulled out a weapon. She's not a little girl either. She's definitely a very large (just big build and a bit chunky, but not fat) 17 year old girl. She seems taller than the officer.

So while this white police officer is trying to detain a black girl in a bad neighborhood with an increasing crowd forming, an idiotic girl is assaulting him (back-up was on the way). He had very little options. I'm positive he had a split second, if not more, of fear for his life in that situation. He probably thought, "Oh god, I don't want to be next". And by that, I mean next to die. Too many Seattle cops have died this past year, and they're on high alert for their lives. Literally.

What did he do to get the idiot girl away? He socked her in the face. Fina-freaking-ly! Geeeez. She deserved it.

That's not what the black community is saying. Well, the Seattle black community said that it wasn't going to be about race, but the Urban League has been brought in. Side note... where's my White League? Why don't I get one where they'll go to bat for me even when I do something stupid and completely avoidable? Okay, side note done. Here's a little bit of what the Urban League had to say about it in a press conference on June 15th:

"It is to my great dismay that we are gathered here again to review yet another police interaction that appears to be an overreaction to what started out as a non-violent, jaywalking situation. Unfortunately, this is becoming far too typical of a response from the Seattle police. The provocation by this 17 year old kid may have presented a confrontational situation, but the use of violence in the form of a full punch in the face was just plain wrong."

Since when did disrespecting cops become okay? Since when are we catering to 17 year old morons that do stupid things? What kind of person are you that you think you're better than a cop? That you have the right to touch a cop on duty? What kind of people are your parents that teach or let you think this way. You SHOULD fear the cops!!! You SHOULD fear that what you may or may not do would bring their wrath on you. That's what they're here for. They're here to uphold the law. They're here to make sure that if you break it, you know it and if necessary, are punished for it. They're putting their very lives on the line to protect you and you're life. They bury their friends and coworkers more often than necessary. How many times have you buried someone you worked with and befriended because of a murder? I haven't. If I did, I'd be too devastated to go back I think. And yet, these police officers do. They go back because they believe in what they do. So eff you stupid girls for being such pig-headed dumb-asses and thinking YOU're above the law. No one should be. Everyone should be held accountable. You did something wrong. You pay the consequences.

The Urban League for Seattle in their press conference kept saying: Yeaaaah, the girl was wrong, but he overreacted......... WTF are you talking about? He was in a bad neighborhood with a group forming around him and someone resisting arrest while another was already hitting him. Should he have tased her instead? Would that have satisfied you? And in all honesty... his punch looked kind of weak. Like it was more for shocking. I bet it didn't hurt as long as the girl will say it did. In fact, if she shows a bruise, I'll be very surprised. Then I'd be suspicious. With what I know of her (being an idiot girl hitting an officer) she'd probably have someone else hit her in the eye so she'll get a bruise.

Then this stupid lady, in addition to the race card being played, she's trying to play the gender card. Reverend Harriett Walden is saying that as women and victims of abuse we ALL need to rally behind this girl because she's a victim of assault. The cop used all our money poorly. She also compared his punch to domestic violence. That what he did is what guys get in trouble for doing behind closed doors. AAAHHHHH!!! Why are women sooo stupid! NO, It's completely different. What he did was try to subdue an idiot who was hitting him and trying to help her friend RESIST arrest! He used a tactic that's taught in their training. It was just one punch too (and a wimpy looking one at that). I'm pretty sure that no domestic abuser stops at one punch. AND I KNOOOW that it's a punch in the face and it hurts more than you think. I don't remember ever being punched in the face by anyone else, but I sure have hit myself in the face (recently too) on accident. No bruises, no pain after 2 minutes. No lasting effects. And they were pretty hard too!

She's an idiot to think this is ANYTHING like a domestic violence situation.

Then there's the speculations: "What if it was a white girl and a black cop?" "What if it was a guy instead of a girl?" "Why didn't he wait for backup?" blah blah blah.

White girl & black cop: We don't have a "white league" to go to bat for our stupid mistakes. If a black cop hit a white girl, then she did something wrong and freaking deserved it!

Guy idiot vs girl idiot: Everyone would be okay with it. BUT! if you noticed, the girl that got the fist in the face had a guy trying to pull her away. He knew that it's better to not get in to it with a police officer. He also didn't look too surprised that she got hit in the face. Plus, if it was a guy instead of a girl, things would definitely get out of hand from there. Women are full of different passions. Guys tend to stay relatively calm until they think it's justified. So if a guy starts hitting and slapping, you know that it's about to get real ugly. Just like the cop. He waited for a long time before acting on the girl assaulting him. Everyone knew that the cop had found that edge and he couldn't let it get any further.

Backup: He had backup coming. He knew he was in a dangerous neighborhood. But he had only a few choice things to do before backup came. Why do you think he didn't take the girl to the ground to cuff her there? He would have been vulnerable to attack from above. He tried to use the hood of the car, but that didn't work as well as he had hoped.

He hit a girl!: Are we not trying to be equal to men? It's okay to hit a guy but not a girl? Come on!!! Washington as a whole is a very matriarchal state. Women are extremely strong there. Women Governor & Representatives. All complete nut-jobs. You can't get both sides of the fence for everything. If you want to be equal, you better be prepared to be treated like a guy. Which is insane. Women and men are chemically, emotionally, physically different. You can't be equal.  If I'm being a freaking moron, and a guy would be punched for what I'm doing, and I expect to be treated equally to a guy, then PUNCH ME IN THE FACE!!!! jeeeez! I personally would like to be treated like a woman from years ago. I want to be a stay at home mom, I don't want to bring in an income (I will, only because C wants me to), I don't want to support myself, but instead support my husband. I want to be inferior to him, for him to appreciate my cooking, for him to use me for his own pleasure. To not vote. I don't care!!! I know others do, but I could care less. The only thing I would miss is expressing my opinion and having it hold value. I personally would like to have more rights than they used to have, but I don't need them. Nor do I need to be equal with guys. awk jf;iaejf; sdkf.

In conclusion... if you think the cop stepped out of line, then you are what is wrong with our country. Cops are needed to keep the peace. 95% of crimes are committed by 5% of the population. That 5% of the population is who the cops are after to keep the 95% of us safe. This is proof of that statistic... The 19 year old girl he was trying to detain had previously committed a crime. $1,000 says she will again.

Teach our kids that cops are to be feared and obeyed if they're doing something wrong. And they're not exempt from any wrong doing. Fear helps them conquer the lure of breaking laws and rules. Obeyed helps them realize that if they're doing something wrong, then they can be remorseful of their decision and apologize. Which usually helps get out of the ticket.

Sorry for the rant... hahahaha.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Cats Are Trying to Take Over the World

According to a study done by Kevin Lafferty, there's a parasite in cat feces that makes people like them better. So if you deal with cat feces, or know someone who does, then be careful!

(taken from go.com)

"The parasite, Toxoplasma gondii, has been transmitted indirectly from cats to roughly half the people on the planet, and it has been shown to affect human personalities in different ways.


Research has shown that women who are infected with the parasite tend to be warm, outgoing and attentive to others, while infected men tend to be less intelligent and probably a bit boring. But both men and women who are infected are more prone to feeling guilty and insecure.
Other researchers have linked the parasite to schizophrenia. In an adult, the symptoms are like a mild form of flu, but it can be much more serious in an infant or fetus. Oxford University researchers believe high levels of the parasite leads to hyperactivity and lower IQs in children."

So... don't play with cat poop! Or keep cat poop around. Cats are trying to take over the world without even trying! World domination is still in their sights. ;-)

Monday, June 7, 2010

WARNING RANT: Facebook & Relgious Posts

gaaah! I hate religious posts on Facebook. I don't tell you that you need to stop being sucked in to the religious organizations because they're just drying you of your money, time, and effort. Why do I need to hear some bible verse? Should I start quoting my books? So they may teach morals... That's great... but can't we teach our own family those morals that the church has  teachings about? Can't we be responsible for those messages being upheld and passed on?Or is it secret stuff that only they know and only the privileged get to find out what these super secret morals and good stuff is?!

Most religious people aren't even religious for the right reasons!! It's a: Well.. if I die.. I'll be saved. Bullshit. Here's a tip. When you die... you get buried 6 feet under the ground or cremated so you can be spread across the ocean or sit on top of a mantel at some wack-job family member's house where they can ignore you, but accept you because you're in a pretty vase.
To me, religion is bullshit. It's just a waste of everything. Resources, money, mind, body, etc etc. You don't have to go to church every Sunday or Wednesday or third Friday of every month.. or WHATEVER! You don't have to spread the word of "god" to everyone you know. Which is what you're doing if you post it on FB.. It makes me uncomfortable. Thanks for making me uncomfortable. I try very hard not to say anything to anyone or push my views on them, so why the hell do you get the right to do that to me!?!?! I don't want to hear it. I "tried" religion. I even tried just believing in "god" but it's not for me. I found it to be a waste of talent and energy. I was more hateful and prejudice and I didn't like myself.

Someone posted on their status: "Spiritualism is a self centered, egotistical excuse not to be a part of something that requires something of you" It was said by someone in their church..... ...... ........ ...... WOW... How hateful of a message. Basically... if you don't join a church, you're a douche-waffle. You think that you are more important than the average Joe. I (as the speaker or someone who goes to a church) am better than you because a lot of people see me attend church. Do you? Didn't think so you d-bag. .. .... ..... To be honest, I have more respect for someone who is more in touch with their body, spirit, mind, nature than someone who is (insert organized religion here). Here's what happens when I meet someone.. or find out their religious:
-we exchange hello's: Well.... they can't be too bad
-they go to church: ohhh greeat. If I try to get recruited I'm going to shoot myself in the foot. AND: Wow..... well, there goes the hope we could be great friends. AND I lose a lot of pre-knowing respect.

Sure, maybe after time, we're able to be friends. Once they realize that I'm a lost cause. If someone says they are a believer but don't go to church, they just practice on their own... Well then I know they're not the pushy type. They might be a little weird at times, but I can handle weird. And the pre-knowing respect for them doesn't plummet like it would an organized religion person.

To me, the more reasonable outlook would be Buddhism. I can see "coming back" in a different form, probably within the same species before I would believe that there's this overpopulated heaven where you go after you die. Recycling the essence of someone sounds more believable then some mystical 30 ft man that lives in the clouds and was like... "hmmm I know what I want for my birthday!!! PEOPLE! And not just any people. I want people who will worship me." He sounds like a self-centered woman who opens her legs to get the love she craves from a baby. No matter whether that kid will lead a good life based on her preparations.

Organized religion also demonize natural things like sex and promiscuity while raising those that go against the biological makeup of most everyone!! Like marriage. They refuse to let two people who love and care and trust each other to get married. They promote violence before love and acceptance. They repress genders. They are pushy as hell in trying to "recruit" people to the church.... aka.. the head of the church has dollar signs in his eyes for every person that "needs saving". They have people in leadership positions taking advantage of children.  CHILDREN!! And they're getting away with it! Kids are being registered as sex offenders for taking pictures of or having sexual relations with those that are of the same age!! why aren't these people in religion being registered? Why aren't they getting jail time?

So please, tell me why I shouldn't be offended by those that spread the kind of disease and filth these crack-pot people are hiding behind. The "demons" that come over them and possess them to do horrible things to beings that aren't aware of what to do in that situation because their parents rely on the church to teach them their morals. Wanna know what those demons are? Because I've got the answer! They're the organized religions that make sexual conduct to be something bad. Masturbation, pre-marital sex, sex without the purpose to procreate, prostitution are just a few that are being brought down to look "evil" and acts of "demon possession". There is NOTHING wrong with any of those things. NOTHING! So claiming a "demon" possessed you to molest a child, you're a coward. I mean really? Did a demon possess you 600 times? If you really cared about anything, you'd lock yourself in a mental institute or jail. Because that's where you should be. Either drugged up talking about your religion, or being raped in jail.

So... fyi.. if you post religious things on your FB daily.. I will more than likely delete you as a friend. You're subjecting me to something I don't want in my life. blah blah blah. foaijwe;dfkja;dfjkw;asjv;d

Friday, June 4, 2010

I may be crazy...

like.. certifiably crazy. Go grab the straight jacket! I'll be needing it!

But I'm going to go to the store and picking up a journal. This time(!) I'll be using it!! I don't know if you've noticed this, but I'm sick a lot. And doing the lady-doctor stuff recently, I realized they ask a lot of health questions. (duh, right?) I never have the answers to them. Or I don't remember them because I can't even remember what I did that same morning.

Hopefully, this journal will help me with that. And it'll be able to identify some concerning patterns. I'm sure stress has A LOT to do with why I'm so sick (and lack of sleep), so I'll be sure to write out specific feelings and pressures during the day.

I hope I don't sound like a hypochondriac, but I feel like there really is something wrong with me every day. This'll be a good way to either prove I am and catch bad stuff, or prove I'm just a crazy person. I'm HOPING I'm just a crazy person. That would make everything better I think. At least all I would need is therapy, and not surgeries/medication/a lifetime of suffering/etc.

93 days left checklist update!

According to the banner at the top of the page, it says 3 months and 1 day left on my countdown...


Here's where we are from my May 4th post. Wow, a month has gone by... (blue is this month's updates)

-Find a DJ, still need to do that... DONE!!!

-Find an Officiant: Found one, contacted her, she's free, just need to schedule a meeting and sign the contract--SIGNED THE CONTRACT! Waiting for the wedding ceremony write up from her :D

-Pick out Tuxes: DONE!!

-Get the Bridesmaid dresses rolling, DONE!! Just yesterday :D

-Contact and get the clutches made, sooooo I may have to make these myself. My bank needs more info in order to wire them money (to EUROPE!!) and the people aren't making it easy on me. One of Craig's friend's from work has a mom who works wonders with fabric.. So I'm thinking of going with her now. Do I really need to spend $30 extra to get her the money when she responds with "??" when I ask what US corresponding bank to go through (that's provided by their bank, not my own). Anyway, I'll see her this weekend and she can see if she can pull it off!! :D

-Get my dress fitted [schedule it first!!], no progress on either.. need to schedule it, but I cant get it fitted until August.. I've tried contacting her 2 times by phone, and 1 time by email... nothing back yet. I need to book my tickets for July... I just realized I needed more than 1 fitting. (I'm an idiot)

-Book our room for the weekend, no progress I did it! BUT we may cut it back a day or two.

-Find out if there's a free premarital counseling place... I actually am reading some books! I started Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. I reserved copies of the following at the library:
-The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage,
-The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work,
-The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands,
-10 Stupid Things Couples Do To Mess Up Their Relationships,
-Rich Dad, Poor Dad (for Teens)
-aaand, because I want to be a stay at home mom, I'm reading: In Praise of Stay-At-Home Moms

-Send Save-the-Dates [Or as C likes to refer it as: Save-the-Last-Date.. hahaha], DONE!! or should I say 1/2 done? because I still have 2 to send (1 for C's boss and 1 for a family member I just got the address to.. okay like 2 weeks ago I got it!) I did the last two!!!! yay :D

-Rehearsal Dinner, I'm trying to think of how to do this... I know where... but... I dunno... I'll talk to the WBC ladies and see what they think I should do before we're at 60ish days

-Day After Brunch, no progress

-Invitations [doing myself, so it's a big project], got the main invitation formatted! need to get the Directions, Guest Information, and a 3rd paper for something... and an RSVP + envelope for the "old peep" who don't know how to use the Internet ;)-) I should probably do this over the weekend... it's getting to be about that time to send them. Or at least start putting them together.

-Bridal Shower [good thing I'm not dealing with that, but I still worry!!!], yay! my aunt/mom/sister are starting work on it :D

-Marriage License, cant do it before 30 days before :(

-Menu, changing a little bit :( I don't think C would like to do the Pu Pu Platter since it's more than we were thinking.. so we have to choose our favorite 2 for the included appetizers. boooooooo

-Buy C's ring, still need to go to the store to find a no diamond ring he'll like... probably not for another couple weeks

-Bridesmaid accessories, silver jewelry and a golden/brownish/buffed copper shoes? maybe? don't care about the style

-Bride accessories, still need undergarments, jewelry(?), maybe just earrings.. but that's it.--I'm going to need it sooner than I thought. When we go for the rings, we'll go for the undergarments... Can C know what it looks like before? or is that tabooed too?

-Figure out what b/c I need to go on, OHHHH... ... birth control.. silly me :D. Yeah, that's still a work in progress, can't do hormonal ones so the only options are low hormone pills, depo, patch, & IUD (5 years)... thinking about IUD b/c I hate the others. Made an appointment with the OBGYN! It's not until the 17th though. I'm nervous.

-Gifts for awesome helpers, ... any suggestions?

-Special Songs play list, no extra progress. I did ask 1 dad! I'll see if I can ask the other. I was just waiting if my dad would be comfortable with the dancing before asking the other.

-Find something to get rid of awesome acne [though, I don't expect anything to work, like always], I should make an appointment at the skin doc... because my face hates me. my method before wasn't working... so I'm going to try Proactiv again. (I ordered it... 29.95)

-Out of Town Guest bags [which will be, like, everyone], got some candy for it!!! :D And my mom got some sanitizers. yay!

-Ceremony Programs, oh yeah... well I have the general format from the invites at least!

-Keep Track of RSVPs, still not possible

-Get my guest-book made [you'll see what I mean], I'm thinking about switching to a different guest-book maker... I really like theirs... I feel bad though :(.

-Get a picture on canvas [another, you'll see what I mean], DONE!! Just need it framed now!

-Get official "change your name" documents, ummm I wish I knew what to do there.

-Find Something new, blue, and borrowed... I have something old. Does it count if I wont' be wearing it until the end of the ceremony?, still don't know if the "something old" at the end of the ceremony works... what to do about NEW, BLUE, & BORROWED?????

-Make a timeline for people who have to be somewhere at a certain time, still not done.. I'll wait until the coordinator's is more finalized before copying it.

-Figure out if we want to do a receiving line or visit tables..., no progress...I think C wanted to do one of those.. but I can't remember which. We're thinking of doing the receiving line... Though it means we'll be taking pictures before the wedding... which I'm actually okay with!

-Carmel apple centerpieces--can't do until the week before anyway. I am thinking about trying it though... I wish I had test dummies! But there are no kids I know of around here. anyone have kids?

-Cake Alternative--DONE!! YAY!!! Apple Squares :D my Grandma Slagle's recipe. I hope she can make it if she comes! It's 1 million times better than when I make it. My mom's is just 1 under 1 million times better than mine.

-Make a card box holder thing... It'll probably be one of those picture holder/shoe box things. But one I can personalize. Not sure how yet. :( apples? paint? markers? paper? I'll go to Michael's again sometime this week and check it out! I have COUPONS!!!

That's BW (Before Wedding)... AW (After Wedding) I have to:

-Get on C's insurance, can't yet..though it might prove to be more difficult b/c I may have "pre-existing conditions".

-Merge our bank accounts [hopefully I can do that before hand] no progress... he tried too, he'll have to call to see what's up. He can't remember his password/username AAHH! We did it last weekend! I'm just waiting for my card/checks. I'm so excited :D We went in just to ask them how, and they got us set up in a couple of minutes! I can go in and change the name when I get my new name :D :D :D BIG RELIEF!

-Change my name... on everything... can't

-Cry [I'll need it], haven't done yet!! (phew!)

-Send out announcements to family & friends, I haven't even thought of how I should send it...

-Get our new license [We've been holding off because I didn't want to pay twice for a new license],still nothing.

-Apply for scholarships to go back to school, still need to do the FAFSA one for them

I'm doing pretty good! 93 days!! :D eeek!

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Husband Hunters?! WTF

Wanna know why I hate most women? Here's reason 223,248,987,354... or whatever.

From MSN (link here)
Beware the Husband HunterWhy Some Women Go For Guys Who Are TakenMay 28, 2010



By Elise Nersesian



A sparkly engagement ring used to be the symbol of ultimate security for single girls. However, a dangerous ilk of women is on the rise — those who don't consider a wedding band a deterrent, while searching for Mr. Right. They crave the excitement of a passionate romance, but one with an added challenge on top. In other words: They want your boyfriend or husband and aren't the least bit afraid to go after him.


Really? I hope you die a horribly painful death. Not one part of this is honorable. "But we're not men, why do we need to be honorable?" Have you no feelings? Soul? Morals? If not.. you should be committed. If you do and you still don't care... I hope you get your eyes clawed out by the wife/gf/fiance. Because if you EVER touch C... I will do more than that.

If the tabloids are any indication, one may assume that chasing married men is largely a habit formed in Hollywood — from Rachel Uchitel's recent confession to bedding actor David Boreanaz (a married father of two), to stripper Michelle “Bombshell” McGee's tryst with Sandra Bullock's soon-to-be ex Jesse James, to (insert name of stripper-Playmate-bottle girl)'s fling with shamed golfer Tiger Woods.



However, this recent batch of philandering female star-chasers is indicative of a real-life trend that's been taking place for a while, say scientists at Oklahoma State University.

Yeah, and they seem to think they're okay because "the guy was the married one. He should have known!" just shut up!!! You're ridiculous. You definitely are just as responsible for it as they are. If not more... being female and more clear-headed during arousal than male... you can turn your desire on and off with a flip of a switch.



In a prominent and highly publicized study, researchers divided bachelorettes into two groups and showed them photographs of a hot guy — telling one group he was single and the other he was in a relationship; then, they asked the women how likely they were to pursue him. Only when the woman believed he was committed to someone else did interest in the male subject skyrocket.

REALLY?!?!?! I understand he'd be hot.. but you'd be more than likely to pursue him because of that?!



So what gives? It's not like mate poaching is a new concept. The idea of seeking several partners — even those who are taken — well, that's classic Darwinian thinking. However, some experts say the more sexual equality females gain in society, the more Rachel Uchitel types are likely to come crawling out of the woodwork.

I understand and accept that marriage and commitment is not natural for people. But if you make that commitment, then you should definitely stay true. Make sure you're not in the situation for something bad to happen. But if someone's trying to stay true to their commitments, why would you try to ruin it? Ho-bag.




“Research shows that in societies where women are economically powerful, the more sexually and socially aggressive they are,” says anthropologist Helen Fisher, Ph.D., author of Why We Love. “And today, with more men out of work than women (due to the recession cutting more male-oriented jobs), we're seeing women become bolder in every area of their lives.”



There's even a chemical explanation for why many women pursue guys in relationships. “Any block to romantic love drives up dopamine — a brain chemical associated with love and reward,” says Fisher. “That brain rush can feel addictive.”

So.. we can excuse women for their chemical reaction to the "love" drug, but not excuse men for their chemical reaction to sexual desire. (i.e. All the whores are given a pass, but the stars that recently were caught cheating get hung out to dry.... sounds fair.... or not... idiots).



And, for the female mate poacher who Oklahoma researchers say bases her self-esteem on her looks and romantic status, that brain rush can be an intoxicating and driving force, causing her to view already-committed men with rose-colored glasses.



“Men in relationships have already proven their willingness to commit, which is a major draw to these women,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., sex and relationship therapist. “The possibility of landing him may make her feel special and maybe even superior.”

 Yeah.. wanna know what you really are!! You're not superior. You're just a booty call. You're not special, or interesting, or the love of their life. You're a ho-bag, less than dirt, not honorable at all and not to mention, you're an idiot. And you deserve every horrible thing that happens to you. I don't care if you had daddy problems, or your love life was bad when you were younger... go find your own guy. Just because we found someone to hold companionship with, you don't have to poach in our territory. We've already succeeded where you've failed.. wanna know why? Because you're an idiot and you're doing it wrong.


But this high doesn't last for long. Expending all their energy on already- committed men is a risky business, says Kerner. That's because these men are often happy to have sex on the side, but are rarely willing to leave their wives or girlfriends.

See? A man can have sex with just about anyone.. but to actually be in a committed relationship or living with someone... that's what they work through most. Sex is meaningless, or can be, but having someone at home to take care of you, that's special to them.




Proof can be gleaned from Michelle McGee's infamous quote in Steppin' Out magazine: “I think men are made to spread their seed. Women need to accept that. If you're going to be married to somebody, you need to know that men are not meant to be with one woman. I think you can totally love your spouse and still sleep with other women. That urge will always be there, if you're a man. I believe you can love your wife 100 percent and still stray.”

But in the end, both women get shafted. “The problem is, by expending all their energy on men in relationships, female mate poachers are overlooking potential guys who could be compatible long-term mates,” says Kerner.

See? (again) You're doing it wrong. idiots.

Yet, sometimes it does work out. Angelina Jolie — no doubt our generation's most famous mate-poacher — snatched Brad Pitt from Jennifer Aniston; five years and six kids later, they seem to be going strong. But in Angie's darkest hour, does she ever wonder whether one day she could become the next scorned wife?

Probably. She probably will end up being that.
If you can't tell, I'm a bitch in this post. I have no tolerance for idiotic women who think they can get away with anything/everything. Especially when they crucify guys that do that same thing. Equality does not mean "lets get them back!" If you want to be treated differently, then go back to the way it was. The guys that repressed women back then are not the same ones today... Just like with the slave days. I've never owned a slave... why am I being punished? GET OVER IT!!! I don't hate every dog because I was bit by one when I was younger... OR, I don't hate every horse because one got me beat when I was younger... etc.

I think I'm entitled to hurt any woman who does anything inappropriate with my C, touches, looks, words, etc... especially if I'm standing right there. Or they know he's in a relationship. I'll admit that it's part jealousy and part protectiveness. I'm soo protective of him (physically, emotionally, and comfortability level) because I know him and love him, the easier his life is, the better. 

Weeked Update :D

Sooooo.. busy weekend!!! Here we go!

Friday: C played FIFA on a better gaming system than the Game Cube with a friend/neighbor all night :D!

Saturday: Went to Michael's in the morning for more paper for my aunt's late birthday present. :D C got a model airplane to work on! So we did that AAALLL day! I finished the gift! and C finished gluing the plane together :D.

Sunday: Went to Great America in Santa Clara all day! The rides were... painful. The scariest one was called the Demon. But not because of the actual ride... but because while we were waiting to come to the platform afterward, there were wasps... It was the scariest thing in the whole world. I was locked in my seat so there was nothing I could do if I wanted to. So I broke down crying and C had to keep telling me it was okay. He said that while I was curled up in my seat bawling, the wasp liked my hair... and he thought about hitting it away, but he thought it'd scare me more. ohhh boy.. I was crying like a baby. And I got burnt on my shoulders and forehead! yay! Freckles! haha.

Santa Clara's where the Intel headquarters is, so we were going to try to find it, but we ended up going straight for food after the park. It's actually a really nice area with great weather, so if C EVER transfers there... it's definitely okay with me :D.

Monday: Went to the Michael's Memorial Day sale (20%off entire purchase.. we saved $7+!) for more paper and paint/brushes! They have another sale going on next week too!

It got to 77 degrees in our apartment and usually we like to keep it at 69-72... but it was more humid than hot!!

:D